5 Myths about Colds, Flu, and RSV

How to Talk to Family and Friends about Colds, Flu, and RSV

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Cold and flu season is beginning – and as kids go back to school the chances of catching and spreading viruses and infections increases. NICU parents dread this time of year when we have to weigh the risks of every trip outdoors and every visitor who walks through our front door.

The threats of cold and flu are real! NICU parents know first-hand the sort of risks our children face with each respiratory infection. But we also admit that until our family faced this risk we may have known very little about it. For example, most of us had never even heard of RSV until we were warned about its devastating effects.

Now that we know, it is our job to educate others and advocate for our families. But how do you educate skeptical family and friends? How do you combat accusations that you’re being too protective and worrying too much? You fight with the facts. And the facts are on your side!

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Here are 5 Ways to Bust the Myths about Colds, Flu, and RSV:

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    Colds and Flu Aren’t Very Serious – For vulnerable children and adults, flu can lead to hospitalization or even death. NICU graduates are at a higher risk for serious flu complications. The best way to prevent the flu is by getting vaccinated each year. Children can be vaccinated at 6 months actual age.

  • Your Baby Needs to be Exposed to Germs to Build their Immune System – Babies’ immune systems mature with time, not exposure. The best way to avoid complications and protect a maturing immune system is to not get infected in the first place.
  • You Can Only Catch RSV Once – By the time we are two most of us have been exposed to the Respiratory Syncytial Virus. We will be infected and reinfected many times over the course of our lifetime. But after the age of two the risk of complications from RSV infection goes down for most children. This is both because their immune systems are more mature and because their airways have gotten bigger.
  • Synagis® Shots Will Keep My Baby from Catching RSV – Synagis® may make an RSV infection less severe, but it will not prevent it. Synagis® is not a vaccine. When we get a vaccination our immune system is exposed to inactivated (dead) viruses. Vaccines create active immunity by teaching our bodies how to respond by creating our own antibodies. Synagis® is an injection of antibodies that can slow down the RSV virus but not prevent it.  This is called passive immunity. Antibodies from Synagis® injections weaken and disappear over time. That is why the shots are given monthly during RSV season.
  • Vaccinations Make You Sick – Vaccines use dead and inactivated viruses. They can not reproduce and cause infection. What you experience after a vaccination is your immune system responding; it is not an infection.

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Protect Your Preemie from RSV – Hand to Hold shares information about Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV), the leading cause of rehospitalization for children less than 12 months old. Dr. Sarmistha Hauger, pediatric infectious disease specialist at Dell Children’s Medical Center, explains how to prevent exposure to RSV, who is at highest risk and treatments which are available, such as a protective injection (Synagis). Kasey, whose daughter was re-hospitalized at age 2 with RSV shares her story.

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Be sure to pay attention half-way through where Kasey Mathews shares her family’s fight with RSV that began when her 2-year-old daughter, Andie, was admitted to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU).

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Erika Goyer is the mother of three boys. Her oldest son Carrick Michael was born at 27 weeks gestation and weighed 1 pound, 14 ounces. Carrick died soon after his birth due to complications of prematurity. Erika went on to have two more high-risk pregnancies and two healthy sons.

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