The Shawman

Shawnee H. ~ Super Hero Alias: The Shawman

Shawnee HAge: 16 years
Weight at birth: 1 lb 5 ozs
Weeks gestation: 23 weeks
Time in the NICU: 5 months

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Seizures, CP, Heart Surgery, On oxygen, feeding tube, IV brain bleed, apnea monitor.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Our adopted son came home on all kinds of machines and monitors. Around the age of 3 he no longer needed the oxygen and soon afterwards the feeding tube. Today he can propel his own wheel chair, use a stander and walk a short distance with his special walker. He is truly a miracle. We are so proud of him and all he has accomplished. And today he weighs about 170 lbs. His favorite activities are riding in the van/motor home and going to Arby’s or McDonald’s. He loves school. And he loves Disney.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Child

Shawnee is a super hero because he has had to fight just to survive and he is winning that battle. He is very strong, brave and an inspiration to others who have micro preemies.

He inspires us each and every day.

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Twintastic Wonders

Amelia & Jackson P ~ Super Hero Alias: Twintastic Wonders

Amelia & Jackson PAge: 15 months
Weight at birth: 2 lbs 1 oz, 2 lbs 2 oz
Weeks gestation: 27 weeks 2 days
Time in the NICU: 54 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Grade I IVH, ROP, Chronic Lung Changes (with additional breathing/lung complications and 14 months of oxygen therapy), several blood transfusions

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Jackson and Amelia have overcome everything that’s been thrown at them to become two of the healthiest and wild 1 year olds you will ever meet. Not only are they healthy, they are by far the happiest babies in town. If we hear one thing about them all the time, it’s how happy and smiley they both are. They have kept smiles on their faces at all awake hours of the day despite countless hours/days/weeks/months in hospitals and doctors offices. We have never had a week without a medical appointment. They’ve been poked, jabbed, and prodded like no other baby, yet they never cry. They have truly been an inspiration to their parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends of how to enjoy life and despite the bad, keep a smile on your face. They seem to find the good and funny things in every situation, even if its a funny noise their oxygen machine makes or the little baby blinking on the thermometer. They probably have more medical knowledge than most adults and can take their own temperatures, help put their medicine in the nebulizer, and pour water in the humidifier of their oxygen machine.

They amaze us everyday with how much healthier and stronger they get. I’m happy to say most of their prematurity issues have corrected themselves, they are making strides in catching up developmentally, and have surpassed every doctor’s expectations for them. If the past year has been any indication of what strong, happy, powerful people they are, I can’t wait to see what their future holds for them. They have been superstar preemies and definitely deserve the title of “Preemie of the Year”.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

courageous, determined, positive, uplifting, encouraging, powerful

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

Just breathe and take it one day at a time.

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~ Super T Man ~

Travis A ~ Super Hero Alias: ~ Super T Man ~

Travis AAge: 12 months
Weight at birth: 2 lbs 11 oz
Weeks gestation: 28 weeks
Time in the NICU: 68 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

My son was diagnosed with low birth weight, severe anemia, grade III IVH  bilateral bleed meaning both sides, PVL, cyst in right ventrical, Hydrocephalus. He has had 8 blood transfusions and has had four TAPs done (a surgery to withdraw extra fluid off brain), GERD, and ROP. He has therapy every week.

Why Should Your Child Be Recognized as Preemie of the Year?

Why should my son be Preemie of the Year is because he has overcome so much that the doctors didn’t think he would be able to do. Being diagnosed with Grade III bilateral bleed, pvl on both sides of the brain, cyst inside the ventricle, and hydrocephalus, there was some doubt that he wouldn’t be able to walk or talk. But with u/s weekly until we left the nicu then CT’s month (still going for them) the ventricles have enlarged a little but not much. So far no shunt (a device to drain extra fluid off brain) hasn’t been needed to be placed. He has proven the doctors wrong. He is sitting up, pulling up and trying to walk! He also started saying bye-bye as of yesterday (9-24-12). He’s a true miracle. I don’t want him to think he can never do anything in life because nothing compares to the NICU journey.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Child.

Courageous- he faces prematurity everyday.

Determined- he’s determined to beat prematurity and everything doctors say he might not be able to do.

Brave- He fought for his life and is such a happy baby boy!

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

God put you through it, he will walk you through it! I love that saying, its so true! Also mom’s and dad’s, take lots of pictures and videos. Remember you’re your child’s voice. Ask questions and don’t be afraid to ask again. Talk to other preemie moms and dads. They’ve been there they understand, don’t hold anything inside. Take care of your self.

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Miracle Twins

Aiden and Ethan S ~ Super Hero Alias: The Miracle Twins

Aiden and Ethan S.

  • Current age: 6 years
  • Weight at birth: 1lb 14oz/1lb 6oz
  • Weeks gestation: 24 weeks
  • Time in the NICU: 150 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Micro-preemie twins:  PDA (resulting in heart surgery), ROP (resulting in eye surgery), Failure to Thrive (resulting in G-tube surgery), Double Hernia (resulting in hernia repair surgery), Chronic Lung Disease (resulting in 1 year on O2), brain hemorrhages, seizures, cerebral palsy, rickets, sepsis, social sensitivity.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

My twins should be recognized as Preemies of the Year because they have struggled so hard for the last 6 years to overcome unbelievable odds and obstacles.  They were given a 5% chance of surviving and being healthy – and after 6 months in the NICU, 3 years in isolation, numerous surgeries and hospitalization, and years of therapy – I’m so happy to say that they’re doing amazingly well and just started kindergarten.

They’ve had to work so hard during their short lives just to live and to grow, I feel like their childhood and opportunities to just have fun have really been affected.  As parents facing medical bills that have run in the hundreds of thousands of dollars, we haven’t been able to focus on much other than just providing the basics.

This Disneyland trip would be our first family event as a “normal” family and would mean the world to all of us.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

Aidan and Ethan are more than just strong, brave and resilient.  They are inspirational to all that meet them.  Not only did they encounter so many obstacles in their lives – they have gone on to test on the genius scale.  They are absolutely brilliant.  Both boys taught themselves how to read at age 2. Now they are studying science, math, and foreign languages.  They are truly inspirational and I believe they will go on to do amazing things – possibly even cure prematurity!

Note (posted 10/29/12):

I just wanted to sent you a note saying thanks, and add a personal story around my boys’ entry “Miracle Twins”.

Aidan & Ethan were born at 24 weeks, had a 5% chance of surviving and being healthy, and spent 6 months in the NICU and 3-1/2 years in isolation.  Needless to say, it’s been a LONG journey for them (and us!)

It was kind of a family joke while they were in the NICU, I would tell them “just survive this and I’ll take you to Disneyland.”  As they got older and had more complications, more surgeries, and more hospitalizations, I continued to tell them “someday you’ll be healthy and we’ll go to Disneyland”.  Disneyland got to be the trigger of healthy.

This year, Ethan had his feeding tube removed.  For the first time ever my boys are tube/wires/monitor free!  And of course –  now they’re saying It’s time for Disneyland! I feel like this competition couldn’t have come at a better time for us.  My kids are finally healthy and they deserve this so much.  This would allow us to give them this experience.

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Cowboy Cole

Cole C ~ Super Hero Alias: Cowboy Cole

Cole CAge: 5 years
Weight at birth: 1 lb 5 oz
Weeks gestation: 24 weeks
Time in the NICU: 147 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Bronchopulmonary Dysplasia, Grade 2 Bilateral Brain Bleed, PDA ligation surgery, Hernia surgery, Intubated for four months.

Why Should Your Child Be Recognized as Preemie of the Year?

Much to our surprise, Cole was born on a hot day in mid June instead of an autumn day in early October.  Weighing only 1 lb. 5 oz. and having very underdeveloped, sick lungs, Cole was given a 20% chance of survival.  We were told that if he did live, there was only a 5% chance that he would not have life long medical problems.  His stay in the NICU would last until his due date or beyond.  Born in Beaumont, Cole was transported to Texas Children’s Hospital by the Kangaroo Crew.  He was diagnosed with BPD, a chronic lung disease common to premature babies.  During his stay at TCH, he had a grade II bilateral brain bleed, PDA ligation surgery, risk of ROP, and hernia surgery.  He was almost a month old when we were finally able to hold him.  He was intubated four out of the five months he spent at TCH and then received oxygen through a nasal cannula.  A week before Thanksgiving, Cole was released from TCH.  At home, he continued to require oxygen through a nasal cannula and received supplemental nutrition with an NG feeding tube until after his 1st birthday.  He also received occupational and feeding therapy.  Cole is now an energetic five year old and loves the same things that other little boys his age enjoy.  He has a fun loving personality and inspires everyone he meets.  If you met him today, you would never guess all that he has been through.  He is truly our hero!

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Child.

Cole is FEARLESS!  Like a speeding bullet, Cole rode a sheep farther and longer than any other little cowboys and cowgirls at the rodeo.

Cole is ENERGETIC!  Unable to stand still in the outfield of a TeeBall game, Cole has been spotted picking flowers and throwing dirt.

Cole is CHARMING!  Cole never misses an opportunity to greet a pretty lady.  He has been witnessed practicing on the mannequins at department stores with, “Hello Ladies!”.

Note (posted 10/23/12):

You can see Cole’s journey at Carepages.com. The name of his care page is colecoopercarepage.

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

You are your baby’s best advocate… don’t be afraid to ask questions.  Although you may not be able to hold your baby for a while, you can read, hum, and sing to your baby.  Be as involved as the hospital staff will allow you to be. You can tell them you want to participate in little things like bathing, diapers, and feedings.

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The Dynamic Drooling Duo

Jacen and Spencer G ~ Super Hero Alias: The Dynamic Drooling Duo

Jacen and Spencer G

Age: 6 months old
Weight at birth: 2lbs 13oz and 3lbs 3oz
Weeks gestation: 29 weeks and 4 days
Time in the NICU: 62 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Jacen – Apnea, bradycardia, pneumothorax, anemia, grade I brain bleed, reflux, torticollis, plagiocephaly.
Spencer – Apnea, bradycardia, anemia, grade II brain bleed, severe reflux, torticollis.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Jacen and Spencer are a dynamic duo. From their first ultrasound videos at only 8 weeks gestation, it was obvious they were strong. When mom went into preterm labor at 28 weeks and 1 day, everyone thought they would be arriving very soon, but the boys fought to hold on for ten more days before being born on their father’s birthday. After a few very scary weeks, Jacen and Spencer became “feeders and growers”. During rounds every Tuesday morning, the doctor would say, “Here are Jacen and Spencer; they are pretty boring.” Medically boring, maybe, but superhuman exciting. They deserve to be “Preemies of the Year” because they have fought hard to catch up in growth and development comparable to other babies of their adjusted age.  They are a model of strength and an inspiration to other preemies.

I wanted to also share that we have a blog about their journey, beginning before they were even conceived. http://oneplusoneismore.blogspot.com/

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

Jacen is physically strong. He has the strength of a 6 month old in a 4 month old’s body. He constantly surprises doctors and therapists with his physical prowess. He battled the evil Pneumothorax on his own when the doctors were convinced he would need a chest tube. The doctors were then convinced that he would require a transfusion for the wily foe Anemia, but he bested that on his own as well. He is intelligent, constantly investigating and exploring the world around him. He is a doer and would much rather study his toys, or tools rather, than lay down to take a nap. Finally, Jacen is fearless. He does not back down from a fight, whether it’s from a preemie-related foe or with his brother over a pacifier.

Spencer is extremely compassionate. He seems to have a sixth sense when someone, especially mommy, needs an extra snuggle. He is hard-working and has overcome many physical obstacles. He has had to battle the evil villain Severe Reflux. With the help of his sidekick, Prevacid®, he has been able to knock that foe out. Spencer is also inspirational. No matter how tough things have been, he has fought foes with an inner strength few know.

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

The NICU journey is a marathon, not a sprint.  It doesn’t end at discharge day but homecoming is something to look forward to.  Take lots of pictures because there will come a day, in the not too distant future, where you won’t believe your child was ever that small.

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Tiny-N-Tuff

Kastyn & Kenady M ~ Super Hero Alias: Tiny-N-Tuff

Kastyn & Kenady M.Age: 8 months old
Weight at birth: Kastyn 2lbs, Kenady 1lb 15oz
Weeks gestation: 26 weeks
Time in the NICU: Kastyn 120 days, Kenady 141 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Kastyn: Bronchopulmonary Dysplasia, PDA, ROP, Laryngomalacia, Osteopenia of Prematurity, Hydronephrosis, Gastroesophageal Reflux. Surgeries: PDA Ligation, Supraglottoplasty

Kenady: Bronchopulmonary Dysplasia, Gastroesophagael Reflux, Subglottic Stenosis, ROP, IVH, PDA. Surgeries: Glottis Granuloma Resection, Tracheostomy, Gastrostomy Tube, Nissen Fundoplication

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Kenady and Kastyn should be recognized as Preemie of the Year because they are the example of strength. I was put on hospital bed rest at 20 weeks and my doctor thought that within a couple of days I would lose both of them. They held on for 6 weeks. When they were born, they were so tiny yet so strong. Kastyn was the sickest baby and for days we didn’t know if he would live. His lungs were so bad that they did not know if he would be able to come off of the ventilator.  He fooled everyone and 120 days later he came home with no oxygen and very few medications. He now weighs 15 lbs and is growing like a weed.  Kenady also played a few tricks on us. At six days old she was off the ventilator and breathing on her own but was so small she wore herself out. At a week old and only 1lb 12oz she flipped over and extubated herself. We knew she was a fighter.  After 115 days in the NICU it was determined that she would need a tracheostomy.  She received her trach on July 8th and on July 17th she came home. She is still tiny at 11lbs but she is a little spitfire.  After all that she has been through she has a smile that will light up a room.  Kastyn and Kenady are my heroes.

Note (posted Oct 31, 2012):

Thank you to everyone for voting…We just recently found out that our fierce little girl has more obstacles to overcome. We thought she would outgrow the need for her trach but things went the opposite direction and her airway is completely closed. The trach is her lifeline. The doctors hope sometime after her 1st birthday they can reconstruct her airway. She is so brave and still smiling everyday.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

Kastyn is strong, thoughtful, and energetic.  He has a very sensitive side to him.

Kenady is my brave, fierce fighter. She always has a smile and can melt your heart.

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The Triumphant Trio

Lathan, Lauren, Logan G. Lathan, Lauren, and Logan G ~ Super Hero Alias: The Triumphant Trio

  • Current age: 6 years
  • Weight at birth: Lathan – 2lbs 14oz, Lauren – 2lbs 12oz, Logan – 2lbs 10oz
  • Weeks gestation: 28 weeks
  • Time in the NICU: 52, 67 & 76 days

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

  • All three had PDA ligation surgery at 3 days old
  • Chronic Lung Disease
  • Necrotizing Entercolitis (Lauren)
  • Both boys IVH (Lathan bilateral grade 2′s and Logan a 3 & a 4)
  • Pulmonary Edema (Logan)
  • Failure to Thrive (Lauren)
  • Pyloric Stenosis surgery (Logan)
  • ROP for all three (though thankfully none required surgery)
  • Severe reflux (Lauren & Logan)
  • Hernia Surgery for both boys plus all the other “normal” preemie obstacles.

They came home on oxygen, a feeding tube and apnea monitors.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

My Triumphant Triplets should be Preemies of the Year because of the resiliency, courage and strength they’ve shown these past few years.  They have the power to help those in the thick of adversity, see that there are happy endings to even the roughest beginnings.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

The Story of The Triumphant Trio:

A long time ago, in a NICU far, far away…three tiny triplets were beginning the fight of their lives.  Born just hours shy of 28 weeks, not quite ready for the real world, these babies required super powers to help them breathe, eat, keep warm and fight infection.  Armed with an enormous amount of prayer warriors, parents that loved them more than they could imagine and a spectacular team of doctors, nurses and specialists, these super babies embarked on the fight of a lifetime.

As the days, weeks and months passed, nasty Villains tried to get in the way of the trios good doings.  Unwilling to give in, the resilient three continued to grow their magnificent powers and battle through any and all ailments thrown their way including chronic lung disease, brain hemorrhages and necrotizing enterocolitis to name a few, in addition to surgeries and procedures that would make grown superheroes cry.  Their vision and hearing were threatened as was their ability to walk, run and play someday.  The outcome looked grim at times but the tiny triplets never gave up.  They fought through the pain, fought for every breath they took and somehow knew something much better was waiting for them at home.

Though separated during their time in the NICU, once home these three quickly became the best of friends and with their combined strengths found they could conquer just about anything.   Today they are healthy, thriving 6 year olds with no lingering complications from their early arrival.  They are united in raising awareness for premature births and spreading the news near and far that even the tiniest of superheroes with some of the biggest battles to overcome can prevail and become triumphant.

They will forever be known as The Triumphant Trio!

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The Amazing Micro-Preemie 3 Amigos

Reese F., Troy F., Jillian F.

Reece, Troy & Jillian F. ~ Super Hero Alias: The Amazing Micro-Preemie 3 Amigos

Age: 2 years old and 4 months
Weight at birth: Reese (1lb 6oz), Troy (2lbs 2oz), Jillian (2lbs)
Weeks gestation: Reese (23wks6days), Troy & Jillian (26wks3days)
Time in the NICU: Reese (115 days), Troy (91 days), Jillian (97 days)

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Beyond the many micro-preemie breathing and other issues (ventilator, cpap, blood transfusions, brain bleeds, etc), Troy had heart surgery to close his PDA in August 2010. We currently have speech therapy, occupational therapy and physical therapy weekly.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Our triplets, Reese, Troy and Jillian, are “Preemies of the Year” because they are the real life 3 Amigos! I have never seen so much character packed into such tiny little bodies. Our first daughter, Reese, decided to take a leave from the Amigos at 23 weeks, 6 days because she was so determined to meet the world outside her momma’s belly. Troy and Jillian could only do without the first Amigo for so long, so they joined us 18 days later. Yes, that’s right; they are triplets with two separate birthdays! In the NICU, Kangaroo care was a joy, while the incessant warning beeps of the monitor were not; unless, of course, it was Reese doing her signature brief-bradychardia-beep when we tried to leave at the end of the day; just her way of saying “bye-bye” to Mom and Dad! Just as we were getting cozy into our NICU routine, Troy would be transferred to another hospital for heart surgery to close his PDA. On his Dad’s birthday, Troy went through surgery with flying colors, and his little heart was fixed. Troy shocked us all by being discharged HOME, and not back to our original NICU, on September 1st. We had heard of the infamous “wimpy boy” syndrome…well…this wimpy boy was the first of our three to come home. Not so wimpy, after all (he has much to prove on that at home now, as his sisters test his 2.25 year old strength on a daily basis). Reese and Jillian joined us at home on September 16, and that is when a whole other kind of crazy began! My husband made a photo montage recently, and for this point in time the music he chose was “Welcome to the Jungle” by Guns n’ Roses. He could not have chosen a more appropriate tune. While we were so sleep deprived that it is rather blurry in both of our brains, we do remember a sea of acid reflux induced spit-ups,’ round the clock feedings, and lots of breast milk pumping (on my part, anyway). We waded through lots of doctor’s appointments and therapy appointments, but had to minimize the visitations by people who had awaited the arrival of these babies for so very long. It was very difficult saying “No, you can’t meet my children that I am immensely proud of” because of the risks of infection that came with it. Since then, it has been one amazing day after another. With the possible outcomes we were given based on their gestations at birth, I never would have pictured the amazing little people that they are today. They continue to receive various therapies, but are otherwise healthy 2 year olds. I cannot express how blessed we feel and how immensely thankful we are for everything (and everyone) we have. Reese, Troy and Jillian are truly the Amazing Micro-preemie 3 Amigos!

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

Reese – Determined, Creative, Stealthy

Troy – Persistent, Persuasive, Glowing

Jillian – Ambitious, Indomitable, Clever

I tried to come up with three encompassing characteristics of Reese, Troy and Jillian. They have similarities, however they have characteristics that also set them apart from each other, slightly, and I wanted to share those.

Reese has been determined to beat the odds since the day she was born. It is always difficult to know when Reese isn’t feeling well because she maintains her good spirit and mood no matter how she is feeling. She is very stealthy in this way, and is also physically stealthy; this girl can be reading a book one second and then across the room climbing over a baby-gate the next! She finds ways to make anything work Reese’s way. She finds out how everything works, down to the details. This comes in handy later on when she wants to maneuver a dollhouse into a climbing stool to get over that gate.

Troy is a salesman at heart. He can persuade you of anything even though his vocabulary is still fairly limited at age 2. Once he has decided he wants to do something, he is persistent and will have you convinced of the same thing very quickly. He has a glow about him that just emanates his good spirits, which only helps with his persuasiveness. Watch out if you do catch him in bad spirits, though; that fiery redhead temper can flare every once in a while!

Jillian was dubbed “happy go lucky” in her NICU and early months. She was content to sleep in her Isolette and rarely encountered fussiness. We are convinced that she was planning her future ambitions this whole time. Her goals of leaping from couch to ottoman and doing a forward somersault have already been reached. Only Jillian knows what her next accomplishment will be. She cleverly keeps these ideas to herself and surprises everyone with them when she completes her attempts. Do not try to dissuade her from these tasks – if Jillian has decided it is important to try, it will be done.

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

Even though you are focused on your baby (or babies), please take time to take care of yourself. Even if you aren’t hungry, eat. Even if you aren’t tired, sleep when you can. NICU babies need healthy Moms and Dads!

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Jude the Ad”vent”urer

Jude S

Jude S ~ Super Hero Alias: Jude the Ad”vent”urer

Current age: 9-1/2 months old
Weight at birth: 4lbs (including 10z tumor)
Weeks gestation: 31 weeks 0 days
Time in the NICU: 111 days
Hometown: Kansas City, Kansas

Diagnosis, surgeries, complications?

Oral Teratoma, PDA, Obstructive thrombus, Progressive Posthaemorrhagic ventricular Dilatation (IVH grade 4s), Choanal atresia, Aspiration pneumonia, Cholestasis, GT/fundo, VP Shunt, Vent Trach dependent, Digestive complications. Removal of Teratoma, plus multiple additional surgeries. Multiple blood transfusions. Lung problems. Development delays. Among other things.

Why Should Your Children Be Recognized as Preemies of the Year?

Jude the Ad”vent”urer should be Preemie of the Year because of his ability to defy all odds. Before Jude was even born, he had to demonstrate super hero abilities to survive. Doctors told us that less than 1% of babies born have oral teratomas and of those babies a finite few are born with a teratoma as large as Jude’s. Multiple specialists warned that Jude would likely not survive.  If he did, his quality of life would be pitiful. Jude came early at only 30 weeks. We rushed to the hospital after going into labor. The doctors tried to stop the labor process but within 12 hours, Jude was ready to come out. He was born with a 10 oz tumor (3/4 the size of his head) growing from the roof of his mouth and descending out of the mouth. He was delivered via emergency exit procedure, and was, from what we know, the first successful emergency exit procedure. During delivery, a tracheostomy tube was placed and he was hooked to a ventilator. Days after birth, Jude experienced two grade 4 inter ventricular hemorrhages (brain bleed) as well as an open PDA. In addition, Jude’s primary physician that diagnosed the IVHs, proposed that the likelihood of developing Cerebral Palsy as a result of the IVHs was almost inevitable. Days before the removal of the tumor, doctors discovered brain clots on each side of Jude’s brain. These clots, if left untreated, would cause enough damage to the brain to eventually lead to death. Jude would require inter muscular Lovinox® injections twice daily for the next three months. The tumor was surgically removed shortly after, approximately one month after his birth. Due to damage from the tumor, Jude has several oral and nasal malformations. Following the surgery, Jude had to wear a custom brace 23 hours a day for two weeks on his head which reshaped his jaw-line, which was terribly malformed, caused by the weight and size of the tumor. Due to two different cases of aspirated pneumonia, the doctors felt that Jude required a fundoplication in addition to the g-tube placement. His stomach was extremely small. The doctor said it was the size of a blue berry. He was on a continual 24hr feed through his g-tube, with his stomach having to be vented at all times. Because of the tumor and pneumonia, Jude was placed on an oscillator multiple times. At almost four months, Jude was sent home fully dependent on the vent, oxygen support, and on a 22hr vented feeding. At six months old, Jude had a shunt placed in his brain to combat hydrocephalus, and enlarged ventricles. Jude is currently weaning off the vent and decreasing his feeding time. In the next few years he will have multiple surgeries to repair the damage the tumor has done, in hopes to allow him to breath and speak. He will also continue multiple therapies. Jude continues to astonish the doctors with his ability to overcome.

Using Three Or More Characteristics of a Super Hero, Please Describe Your Children.

Jude’s adventurous: Jude laughs in the face of danger! There is nothing too big for Jude to overcome. When Jude sets his mind to something he does it. Jude enjoys observing his surroundings, he eagerly searches the room. He will spend hours exploring the things around him. Jude has had many adventures in his life and always comes out stronger. We were told he would make little if any noise around his trach, Jude has not stopped making noise. Each visit to the doctors or hospital stay Jude takes on the adventure with eyes wide open, focused and a smile.

Jude’s Unconditional Love: Despite painful operations and an overall uncomfortable life style, Jude continues to spread joy with his infectious smile and comedic wit. Jude loves not only life but everyone he meets! Several of his allies in the fight, or nurses, have remarked that he is quite possibly the happiest baby they’ve ever seen. We are told again and again by countless people that a mere picture of Jude did more to brighten their day than anything else could. He has faced several painful surgeries and daily routines and kept a cheerful smile the entire time. He will smile at anyone that looks at him till they smile back and then he will show you what amazing things he can do. He is fueled on by the cheers of his people and tackles each villain as they come.

Jude’s indestructibility: Before his birth doctors speculated that he would likely not survive birth. When Jude was born, however, his indestructibility only increased. He then took on several surgeries and procedures, some of which were quite dangerous, and all of them painful. As with most superheroes, Jude has been placed in situation after situation which has tested his indestructibility only to come out on top. Jude is the only baby I know who will smile at the nurse after he’s been given a shot. “I’ve never seen anything like this” seems to be a common saying amongst the doctors when speaking in regards to Jude which is typically followed by “of course, it’s Jude.” Jude has come leaps and bounds from where he was and where they predicted Jude to be. Not only was he a rare baby before birth but in every situation, no matter how big or small, he continues to make his own way. Jude refuses to fall into line and is determined to continue making life exciting for those with him and those reading about him. He, like all superheroes, makes the stories worth reading.

As every super hero has an arch-enemy, Jude takes on adversity and misfortune using his super powers that are expected from any super hero. He’s craftier than a guy with a mullet, nobler than a pure motive, able to leap small buildings with a single bound (toy buildings with the help of his daddy, of course)…he’s Jude the Ad”vent”urer!

What advice do you have for future NICU parents?

Write down something every day, good or bad. The days seem to fly by and stand still all at the same time and you think you won’t forget a single second. Take time to be still and enjoy your baby. Make fun memories. And remember everyone is fighting together for your precious baby!

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