Madison & Janet: Connected Through Their Daughters’ Legacies

Madison, who recently lost her daughter Zoe, was matched with Janet, also a bereaved mother. They both explain what it has meant to them to participate in Hand to Hold’s Helping Hand program, which matches peers with one another for support. Such meaningful exchanges have now blossomed into a beautiful friendship, a legacy of their two daughters.

Madison M

Madison MooreAs a first time mother afflicted with the hardships of losing a baby full-term, the pain and heartache of it all is a life changing experience. The benefits of receiving support from my match with Janet has been an essential part of pushing through the extra tough days and talking with someone who really knows what’s going on and knows how you may REALLY be feeling has made all the difference in the world for me. Being a person who has always been independent and strong for others was something of a disadvantage for me when I really needed someone to talk to about my feelings, concerns, and personal keepsakes such as my daughter Zoe’s death certificate.

Each day I hope to be a woman of strength to walk through life knowing that I have the love of my daughter with me and the blessings of being able to see her for the last time even though it would be my last. The experience of chatting with Janet has made me a better person in knowing that you’re not alone. I still have a long way to go in my grieving process since this would not quite mark the first year. I’m just very grateful to have someone who is willing to listen and be empathetic when I feel as if the loss is too much. Thanks for giving me such a great match….

Janet C

I love the honor of supporting another grieving mother. It allows me to carry forward life-to-life ministry and also honors my daughter’s legacy. Being matched with a woman who has experienced a similar loss is also beneficial because I am able to understand and empathize with her loss.

Recently, we discussed some of the details of the paperwork involved with losing a child. It’s not something that parents want to manage, but have to. I was able to share my experience with it and give Madison some advice in her situation. This is just one of the ways I’ve found this match to be beneficial.

The most important aspect of the match is that two women, who never would have met, are now becoming friends because of the children they no longer have with them. And hopefully we will get to meet when I travel to Texas this summer!

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